Today I brought up counseling with him. He TOTALLY avoided. I said, "YOu know, we should figure out stuff for counseling. You know, who to see, stuff like that." He said, "I know." Then there was silence for about a minute and then he brought up that he was going to bring me a check on Sunday. He asked to break up the child support so that he paid twice, when he got his paycheck. He said it fit his budget better.
When we split, I divided our accounts equally. We both had plenty. I now have a little bit more than I started with. I am hoping TO GOD that he's not paycheck-to-paycheck. If he blew through that money, holy cow.
I truly think he doesn't want to start counseling because he wants to keep everything 'nice' with us. That's what got us here in the first place!!!! So I am going to bring it up again next week.
Because I'm serious: either we're counseling and friends, or we're not counseling and we're not friends!!!
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
