A week later I got an email from Mr. A telling me that he wasn't coming home. I was sure this was XMIL's doing. My suspicions were reinforced by the fact that she DID pay all the fees (lawyer, filing costs) for him to divorce me. In fact, I was totally confounded in March when he told me not to drive up the legal fees because that would only hurt his mother, not him. I was like, who gives a F***? That's exactly what I want to do!!!!!