FM, thank you! And I have zero reservations for you in regard to your decision to date, based only on what you have posted on your thread and here! You go, Flow! I must say that for me, it has been more good than bad.
I am taking a break in between my work out to post some thoughts, though, about seeing zoobrew again (IF that possibility even exists since he may very well be reuniting with his exG at the beach or something, lol!)
Pros: fun, pleasure, interesting, entertainment, ego boost, validation, something to do
Cons: he is such a great catch that I could get attached, am not ready for that, do not like the idea of a relationship at this time, would be thinking about him in between seeing him, would feel scared, would feel worried, need to focus on balancing work and S, would know that I would need to end it.
As you can see, the cons outweigh the pros.
What does that mean? It means if he is reconciling with his exG, it is a good thing for me!
And yet I really really really enjoyed meeting him and it helped me waaaaaaay more than hurt!
It was just what I needed at this time in my life.
But I do need to get my damn ring back somehow!
Last edited by newmama; 08/14/1002:47 AM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
