My STBXH tells me "no, you aren't the enemy".I sure wonder how H treats his friends. Can't believe a word of what WAS's say, they are in pain. I selfishly think, what about my pain. Aren't I half of this equation.
I keep hearing the "If we didn't know each other would we be friends".I sure as h--l know I don't treat my friends as if they are s--t on my shoe or toxic waste. Real friends watch each others backs, and not just when it fits their agenda.