I have been dealing with a wife with MLC for over 10 months. My story was placed under newcomers under what do i do now. This process has taken every waking moment trying to understand this disorder through reading material. I have learned that you can not change the person or have them come to the table. I learned that I can only take care of myself and my kids. This disorder can take months or years to cure. In some cases it never is cured. I must admit I resent my wife more each day because I was a good and faithful husband for 26 years. I miss the woman I had but the person I loved is someone I do not know anymore. I am in the phase of filing for divorce because I can not deal with someone who does not have the capacity to understand there is a big problem here. I pray each day for strength to get through tomorrow. Bobby O