The tough part about full exposure is the embarassment I feel now that we're 'working it out'- every single person we know is aware of what happened. It's more embarassing for me than for him, as half of his male friends think he's a big stud now I'm sure. *Shrug* That's okay, though- I can live with it.
When his male freinds are all divorced and alone while he is married and has children around him that love him you can laugh back at those miserable buddies of his
You may also want to discuss your H hanging around marriage-friendly people instead of marriage-hostile people as well... it can make a difference
