He's more than off his nut, he's completely cracked the nut and fallen to the ground. Of course, it's the right trunk...but did he listen and/or read what you told him was in the trunk....no!
He's irrational and he's not thinking properly and when they are like this, there's nothing you can do but leave them in the dark. You can't do a thing about him and his irrational behavior. However, you can take care of yourself, enjoy your family and be especially thankful that you aren't in the shape he's in.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
