All great points, CG. I will definitely take them into account.
And you are right... the Divorce by Bed & Board is bullsh-t!! Grrrr. Yeah I don't want to be jaded by all this but it's time to get my gameface on and take no prisoners. Hahaha!
It's been 8 days since my last awful convo with stbx. You know, it's crazy and hindsight doesn't matter but I wonder if the "chick from the club" was actually someone he'd been seeing for awhile. I remember how he didn't show up for my birthday downtown, saying he couldn't find the place but later it turns out he was clubbing with his "boys" downtown. Maybe "boys" was a code word for "chick at the club." I will never know I guess. And I shouldn't think about it either.