No it is not acceptable. I feel hopeless here. I can't really stop him from going and if he is going to verify that he wants to end things with her, i feel he needs to be free to do that rather than me giving an artificial ending. But it is not acceptable.

My friend is his friend's wife, so hopefully he will sty at their house and I will know from her. i will also be able to tell if he is with OW because she texts him nonstop, and if she isn't texting it will be because they are together. This really stinks. I'm 500 miles away from my friends and family right now living in this place for his job, and now I think it could be over.


Me 32 H 32
Ds 3.5 and 1.5
M 5 years, T 14 years
EA/Bomb: 7/1/10
PA revealed: 9/14/10
Legally separated: 10/01/10