Thanks for your post BG,

Guess I don't feel like I'm knowledgeable enough at this point to post re other's situations.

I appreciate your input. I'm planning on moving back there and getting a job in the next month. I really need an income and don't feel like I can leave my current job until I have another lined up.

This week has been very difficult for me as we are not communicating at all, except for 2 emails re kids/pets from him. I know I shouldn't call him and but not calling or communicating feels like "game-playing" to me, which I hate.

There are so many posts here and I've been reading them, but sometimes it makes me feel depressed and that it's a hopeless situation.

Got to run now, be back later.