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Even if you found someone, I doubt your W would be that relieved. Mine wanted me to find someone, but when I did, I noticed the jealousy and pumping the kids for information


As my wife and our girls continue to hang out with OM and his children I keep a strong mind “not to ask to many questions”. Our girls have told me OM children’s names and their ages. My D8 told me where OM lives in the city.

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You should never find a friend to make wife take notice. That would be using someone unfairly


Yes ... you are correct that would be something I could not live with. I am a better individual than that. I retract that statement and apologize for my ignorance.

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Avoid the batchitcrazy that comes when someone is in the position your W has placed herself. She is in a fog.


I must remember that some of the choices wife has made lately are potential life changing and as you have said “ she is in a fog “ Some of these choices may never not be reversible, time will tell. I have made no contact with her in two weeks. She did send me some pictures of our children ( pictures I already had ) My plan is to do nothing, sit back watch and observe more of the choices she makes to bring this marriage to its knees.
Comments appreciated.
Stitch.

Last edited by stitch; 08/13/10 09:26 PM.