She later was abused sexually by her older brother and her step dad as well as others so all of these things certainly contributed to her being unable to complete the entire process of growing up during her adolescence.
Ken I can say from personal experience with this issue that it was almost inevitable that your W had her crisis.
I am not an expert and no one here will tell you your W is in MLC. You should come to your own conclusion on that.
Your journey is what is important.
That is the work we do here.
Understanding, gaining compassion and healing.
Your coming back to understand an continue this is a courageous decision and one
I think you will be amazed at what you discover in yourself.
Regarding your kids this comes from a wise poster here called Grace:
Your job is not to repair the relationship they have with their mother.
your job is not to damage it.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
