I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

OK, turns out S is ok. His dr. said it was totally appropriate to bring him in today since it was the 3rd day of his fever and since he was being fussy. (He woke up from his morning nap all out of sorts and not like himself). She did want to get a chest x-ray to check for pneumonia but there were no signs of infection. It shocked me that she wanted to check! But at least stbxh took him back there, not me, and he said I wouldn't have liked it because they put him in this contraption... poor guy!

Now, I did decide that if I had to see stbxh, I might as well look good! So I wore some tight denim capris and a clingy shirt that showed curves in the right places. I styled my hair, wore perfume, put on nice make-up, wore hoop earrings.

Just talked to my male friend (who is going through a divorce)and he is dating someone but they moved too fast! In 3 weeks, they are calling each other "hon," they see each other almost every day, of course they had done the deed....but she is saying "I have strong feelings for you" and saying "I miss you!" and texting him constantly. He is feeling suffocated and also is worried about hurting her because she obviously is more crazy about him than he is about her. But he is also kind of leading her on, IMO, because he is saying "sure, we can hang out tomorrow" when he could be making other plans instead, you know? I recommended that to him....however, you can take a horse to water but you can't make him drink!