LOL! Well your H certainly wasn't foolish enough to think that YOU would be paying legal fees for a divorce you didn't want or even know about until it was all decided for you. And if he did then bless his soul for being so stupid. I mean really!
How does your H know what sort of legal advice you are getting? Please don't tell him anything. Of course *his* attny is going to say he is getting a raw deal.
I would not continue with this "friendly support arrangement". It will only come back to bite you in a very unpleasant way. Get some legal framework in order ASAP.
As I said to Sol, you do not talk to or negotiate with somebody that is suing you.
