So I was wondering if the blaming everything on the LBS and the feeling like a victim and the selfishness and feeling of entitlement is all through the Replay stage?
As Cyrena has said these are all elements of MLC. I would agree that they are strongest during replay, and I think they continue through the breaking of withdrawal or finshing acceptance. It might depend on what the replay antics are and whether the MLC'er is high or low energy.
Recconection ususally occurs towards the end of replay. Animals or house, then kids , finally spouse. Reconnection should not be confused with reconcilliation which occurs after the breaking of withdrawal.
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I'm assuming that this is very common also in MLC? To return to people from that time in your life that you are trying to get back to?