MLC likely...BPD possible...divorce pending

[Truegritter]

Does unconditional love between two adults really exist? or is this just a myth that we preach and read about.

this is the most perfect love.

It is hard work to give this...

This is not something you get.

If you think that then you will never experience it.

You will never "feel" this love.

It is a state of being imo.

It is something you hold for another, give to another.

It is never a sacrifice to give it.

It is where all of us LBS should try to get to.

There comes a day when you can choose to love someone

regardless of their choices and regardless of your own needs and wants.

To do the opposite would be going against your very core.

To choose not to love this way would cause you more pain.

Now

Can you live your life with someone who does not return love for you?

When you express love this way I believe you come to understand that you control your capacity for love and in turn to be loved by another.

There is mystery or a paradox I believe in this.

That even in the most perfect love

One loves more profoundly than the other.

Maybe it is not always this way as we go through time...

think about this:

Isn't it madness to desire something from another(love) in such a measure

that only you know when it is enough?

Or not enough?

Do not confuse what I say with Romantic Love, paternal, fraternal etc. there are many kinds of love.

Just my opinion of course...