MLC likely...BPD possible...divorce pending

[Truegritter]

Wow

how did i miss this while I was away?

at what point is standing for your marriage...compromising your self respect?

You self respect IS compromised during this process up until

the point you realize you have placed it in the hands of someone else.

Your spouse.

Why?

Why does their decision to do or not do what YOU want compromise your self respect?

Decide for yourself what YOU want.

Stand for your M because you believe in it.

Not because your spouse is going to come back and validate you.

Your integrity and principals are yours.

They cannot be taken away unless you give them.