Originally Posted By: Shelby
My concern right now is Husband keeps telling me that the way he has been doing things so far, is going to be the better deal for me then what the courts are going to give me, if I go for support.


Of COURSE he is telling you that. That is why he's saying not to go to a L, because he knows very well you have a lot of leverage, Shelby! Get your own L. Call today.

Originally Posted By: Shelby
I guess he is getting me nervous now about wether I should go forward with the legal support. Am I making sense?


He's scared of the thought of you getting a L. You can bet on that!

Originally Posted By: bluestar
Shelby, he is only thinking of himself. Once he filed for D, he no longer had your best interests at heart.


This!!!

Do not trust him, Shelby. He prob has his own strategy that works way better for him and not you. Know that.

As for 2x4s... eh I'm not well-versed in that so I will let some other posters respond to you about that.


Me: 29
Got a ticket to the D concert