Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[Steve McQueen]

This is one time that I would say don't believe everything they say, as if this was whole truth you would not be reading it, first(hand).

IF you really want to know what she has to say you might consider finding out what she is saying to these (boy)friends.

BLECCH!

I'm just not sure how to "be there for her" and "spend time with her" without being it's one of the things she spelled out very clearly in the letter to the MC.