So I'm going to stay, not push her out, just be the man I've always thought I'd be. If she decides to leave, then she can leave. It's going to be a long, long Fall and Winter, but I never gave up when I was wooing her. I knew she was the one for me, and I still believe that with all my heart.
Thanks guys for guiding me to the decision that is best for me.
PH, I have a feeling we're both going to be in the same boat (hopefully if my W doesn't leave) all Fall and Winter.
The thing is - and think of it like this - if you're DBing correctly, giving her everything she needs/wants in a man, no pressure, being Mr. SuperFunNiceGuy, but still maintaining a backbone and your integrity.... Why would she leave?
That may be the ultimate question we both should answer. I know what the answer to that question is because my W wrote about it.
Let go, but still fight. I think we can do both.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
