Thanks all,

Soleil you are right. It's done now. But it still bothers me that she has become this toxic to not just me but everyone except her fair weather friends.

This is what I am worried about, Her Mom is getting up there in age and her health is deteriorating slowly just like her late husband. I want to at least come to the hospital and funeral when this happens. I also wonder what will happen when my Son get's married and gives us grandchildren.

Will she really be that venomous that she will not show up for her own Mother's funeral? Her Son's wedding etc?

I have made up my mind that I will follow my heart and be damned what she thinks or wants. I just do not like the consequences of her decision. It hurts everyone.


Me:48
W:55
M:22
T:23
Bomb:19Nov09
S:15Jan10
D:11Feb10
EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10
Fast track to her divorcing me