Letting them go doesn't mean giving up and I think it is the harder of the two paths. It's what many on this site have trouble doing completely (myself included).
I am glad Steve and I have provided a foil so you could make the right decision for you.
Me 44, W 39, S 6, D 6, M 21 Bomb June 18, 2010 I filed D July 20, 2010 W filed counter suit Aug 2 Rings came off Aug 5, 2010