We are now discussing the logistics of separating and the problem is she seems to escalate every little thing into an argument and i mean every little thing.
When she starts raising her voice I have been saying " I do not want to turn this into a fight so lets end the discussion if we cant be civil".
Sometimes this works and sometimes it inflames her even worse. Even me walking away from a fight ends up causing a worse fight.
How do i get around this. We need to talk and agree on stuff in order to facilitate the separation. None of the arguments are about possessions just about what is needed to sell the house and sports car.
I know I shouldn't attempt to mind read but it seems like all the arguing builds up her justification for leaving. She even mentioned that once over the last couple of weeks.
