CTH, I had a similar situation to deal with in the last few years of my marriage. When they don't want you they look for all sorts of reasons to support their decision. There is nothing they like about you! That is hard not to absorb when you're dealing with it day in and day out. Nothing is too mundane or small for them to comment on. Just remember, this is not who you are. Just as they re-write history they also start recognizing and making up your faults. I find that hard to combat sometimes because I was beaten into the ground so many times but had to just keep popping back up and carrying on. I know I once said to her after she criticized the way I slept in our bed (yes, she did!) "is there anything you actually do like about me?" It's important to realize that their reality is not and should not be your reality!
