Considering all that's gone on in your marriage recently, John, don't you think that a more appropriate boundary would simply be
"Neither one of us is to meet up with someone of the opposite sex except with both of us there as a couple"?
The way you have it set up now will forever put you in a case-by-case "Judge's seat," having to make a "ruling" every time, and it will be NO-WIN for you. Rule in favor, you're a weak cuckold. Rule against, you are "controlling."
Puppy
Not bad puppy, not bad. But, there a few select people that are of the opposite sex that I'm OK with her meeting up with. They are mutual friends of ours. I think that's what I was trying to convey with the "we both approve of" part of it.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
