Hi guys! Been a while since I've posted. Ups and downs as I adjust to this new life.
Ok, update. Since moving out, I went on a short vacation to Vegas and Napa. Left with $$$ from Vegas and had a blast!!
Kids have started the school year. I get them this weekend, so I'm in the carpool line as I type this. Tonight, we are meeting a bunch of my new neighbors with kids my kids ages tonight for dinner. Tomorrow, we will go to my brother's so the kids can play with their cousins - swimming and dinner.
All communication with stbxw is either about the kids or money.
The nights I'm alone are tough, but that's getting better. Looking forward to getting the kids this weekend.
Stbxw and/or her "lawyer" seem to be dragging their feet on wrapping up the settlement agreement. Judge has told us she wants the final agreement in less than 2 weeks. Get it done folks! I pick up about $500/mo once stbxw is off my health insurance, which can't happen until stbxw becomes xw.
I will be around a little more now that the dust seems to be settling. Thanks to all you guys for your well wishes, prayers and comments.
And for those of you about to go through a D, just keep your chin up. The kids will be ok (mine seem to be) and if your R was like mine, you WILL be happier without your spouse (assuming spouse was like mine and unwilling to "do the work" to save our M). It really is gonna be ok.
