I know this dude isn't a threat, and as a matter of fact his girlfriend was there at the bar with him when my wife went. I can't find the line between between Mr. Eastwood and Mr. Controlling.
John, your wife isn't going to test you with THE REAL THING (another man with whom she is having, or WANTS to have, an affair). She's going to test you with a beta, to see how you respond.
