That means that past compliments that did not go over well may have not been sincere enough even though I thought they were.
My IC does not believe that W is evil and manipulating with her niceness and openness while waiting for my "decision". He thought that while I should be prepared to call the "quits" I shoul figure out the way to suggest "another look at the situation".
It takes careful wording and finding a right moment. He also said that I may want to write it so she can't have a knee jerk reaction and say no and cut short the conversation.
Some here have said that I should have a face to face talk.
I have learned a lot about myself, her, our R and our pasts. I am looking at the whole situation much differently now and I know what I need to do if I get another chance.
How do I let her know that and ask for a consideration for one last look at our R?
