What would happen if you were give notice that you were moving and planning to take the kids with you?
ie: It's in the best interest of the kids to have a more stable financial future, a happier primary care giver, a bigger house (with a pool and a pony ), safer schools etc etc
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.