38. Do not keep company with the opposite sex. Do not turn to old friends of the opposite sex to talk to about your problems or just to hang out with them. This is not getting a life! This is not acceptable for a MR in trouble and could lead to you getting involved in an EA. If you cannot have your spouse present while you are with the friend of the opposite sex…..then you do not need to be with that friend. That includes any type of regular calls, emails, TM’s, etc., with friends of the opposite sex without the spouse present. You may not understand the seriousness, but it would be like pouring gasoline on a fire.
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So...I want to remain committed to my W as I GAL. But I do have some friends of the opposite sex, not a lot, but some. I have no intentions of developing a relationship with them, and they know that. Yes, I have discussed my sitch with them..but I have decided to put an end to it. Thats another reason why I joined the DB community. Just doesn't seem right that my W's GAL approach involves the opposite sex and dating/socializing? I suppose it is all apart of this counter-productive approach in the DB realm. If she chooses to see I am still committed, that will be her choice.
