Don't forget a full transparency agreement... you both trade cellphones... all internet accounts aer shared.. email account is a shared account... no secrets!
Yes- well, we don't have cellphones, but I'm definately keeping the keylogger on the computer for the foreseeable future, and now have the passwords to all of his online accounts.
The tough part about full exposure is the embarassment I feel now that we're 'working it out'- every single person we know is aware of what happened. It's more embarassing for me than for him, as half of his male friends think he's a big stud now I'm sure. *Shrug* That's okay, though- I can live with it.
Me-29 H- 28 Together for 6.5 years 2 kids, ages 9 and 5 D-Day: July 15, 2010.