I know! And stupid me...I fall right into that trap and go with it.
I talked with D and she is going to talk or text or email H about it. She DOES want him to go. I explained the importance of her telling him vs me for several reasons. 1. It'll be better coming from her and takes me out of the middle. 2. She needs to learn to express her feelings anyway - because that's healthy for her.
She said she would probably text or email him since he's at work and will probably need to let the office know today - rather than waiting to talk to him when he gets home. It's hard to have a phone conversation with H when he's at work, but I told her that would be best if she could manage it.
