My W had some type of dental procedure on her gums yesterday, and is having some discomfort. She didn't feel well enough to go dancing. I had a free evening, and wasn't sure how to spend the time. I did go to a restaurant to pick-up a carry out for her, and the grocery store to pick up some soft items.
She told me I could go dancing on my own if I wanted, but I thought that would not be a good choice. I put on some music and practiced some dance steps. This turned out to be a poor choice, as she described it as thoughtless, since she couldn't dance.
She's upset with me today because she wanted me to spend time with her. I wasn't sure how to spend the time. I spent some of the time tending to my dog, who chewed open some plastic Blue Ice that freezes. The container said it was non-toxic., so I crossed my fingers. I'll try to make it up to her tonight. Hopefully, she will be up to at least leaving the home.
I wil work on not taking her criticism literally, and try to adapt to her situatiion.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
