Well my ex-inlaws had many questions and my XW gave them exactly zero info as to why she divorced me. And she also lied about a few major details. They also had no clue about her EA. Yes I may have overstepped my bounds but I felt I had to do it. In the future I will not discuss this as I said my piece. It is done. They have told me that I will always be welcome there.

Strange thing about my in-laws is that they told me that my XW went down there for a weekend at least twice and did not even bother to see her Mother. This may have something to do with her anger as she may have some guy down there that she is messing around with. I do not even want to know at this point.

Regarding 40+ year old women, I have dated a few and some of them really do scare the crap out of me with their issues and past history. Luckily I have learned not to read too much into this as there have been some good dates and I am seeing one now that is genuinly affectionate and honest with me. I have high hopes for her. But I will not let my guard down as she has been married three times before. That is just how I feel.

Thanks for the input folks.


Me:48
W:55
M:22
T:23
Bomb:19Nov09
S:15Jan10
D:11Feb10
EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10
Fast track to her divorcing me