As I read more and more posts here I may have a harsh reality check. Since my wife has introduced OM to her family and our kids technically it is not and affair even though we are legally separated she can date and do what she pleases. For me to go out and find “ a friend” to hang out with and try and make the wife take notice may not work as she could be thinking she is relieved I found someone else and she can continue on with her new relationship guilt free. Reality hurts.
