Might have someone putting an offer in on house soon. Will know this weekend or early next week. Been getting a lot of activity on house. I’ve been doing some touch up work/finishing touches to some of the paint, little fixes, etc. to try to get the house perfect. Hopefully we’ll get this offer and sell it.
W and I have been communicating much more the past 2-3 weeks...most we have since S. She emails me back within a half hour, answers my calls, and she has initiated some emails and texts. She puts smiley faces on some of her emails and signs her name with her shorter name that I call her. Everything is still house related but she seems to be much friendlier. Could be just because of the house but who knows? Will know for sure once house is sold.
I only contact her about house related items too, nothing R related. I only contact her when necessary. We had to sign some more papers for the listing and she met me at my game last week to sign. My games are at the same gym we both belong to. She interacted and joked around with my friends like she used to do. I know she could just be putting on a good show with all of this and the nicer contact between us lately to keep things civil selling the house. Like I said, we’ll see what happens once the house sells. Either way I feel good that I have done the right thing with the house and am working very hard to sell it for us. Oh, almost forgot, when she did meet me at my game she told me she would stop by the house and turn on the lights and A/C if we had any showings last Sunday. I had asked her the day before to do this because I had to work all day last Sunday. We didn’t end up having any showings last Sunday but at least she offered.
Our wedding anniversary is Monday. That will be a difficult day. I keep going back and forth whether to acknowledge it or not. My IC said if I do to just send a simple card saying “thinking of you on this day” or just a text or email saying the same. Don’t think I will do either.
Hope everyone is well.
mza8
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch