Originally Posted By: pinhead
John,

I was fine with the whole cookie thing until she got a txt from the guy. Everything after that was like a train wreck.


I can understand that. But, I'm not sure what my alternative would have been?

a) Say NO you can't go. (controlling)
b) Say Yes, go ahead, have fun! (supportive, not controlling)

We have some boundaries in place. She was transparent about it all. I'm just not sure what the better choice would have been.

----"Et tu, Brute?"----
me:28 W:24 S4
T:6
M:4
EA Exposed: 5/21/10
Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day)
NC w/ OM: 7/10/10
W moved out 8/21/10
http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch