Well here I am now. Moved over from DBD

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Small update:

I went to my XW's home town to visit my ex-inlaws.

I wanted to let them know that I still think of them as family. And I also wanted them to know the facts about what happened as my XW has been lying to them or not saying anything at all.

Not sure if that was a good idea now as my XW found out about my trip there and went ballistic on me last night.

She basically told me to stay away from her family and if I did not, she would dissown them. Wow! She is really that hateful that she would break all contact with her own Mother simply because there is still communication and love between her and me? WTH?!?

Now I have to decide on what to do. I do not want to come between my ex-MIL and her obviousely mentally disturbed daughter. But on the other hand I refuse to be bullied and I refuse to believe she would hate me so much as to destroy her relationship with her own family.

This is absolutely beyond my comprehension. What is she thinking? What is she afraid of? Could this woman that I loved really be this hateful and nasty to do such a thing?

Does she not realize that we have a Son together and that this ties our families together forever? What is she going to do when our Son gets Married and gives us grandchildren? Will she dissown her own Son because she does not want me there at the wedding or at family get-togethers? Seriously?!?

I just do not know how to handle this. Any opinions on the matter would be greatly appreciated.