Made up my mind that I'm not going to talk to anyone that knows her and I anymore. Told our mutual friend that it's not right and don't want to know when W and her hang out or any details of anything. I'll just come here and vent if needed.
I made the mistake of reaching out to too many friends and family. I know that sounds odd, but my W is now hyper aware of who knows what's going on. We took our Ds to the children's zoo, and I saw a friend we had both known for 13 years. I was speaking to her while W was watching the girls, and she didn't notice our friend. Then when she did, the first thing she asked me was "What did you say to her?" I replied "I said Hi..."
It's hard when you rely on your network of friends for support. My W doesn't, she's keeping most of this to herself and bottled up. Her choice.
