21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[Chuck66]

LSG,
I am not as ready to move on as the email purports. I lied about talking with the L to speed things up. No he did not see the email before I sent it. Aug 5 has already passed? I'm still thinking the D will finalize in Jan like my L said. We have required parenting classes to go to and have not even had any hearings.

Oh, you asked about Aug 5th because that's when we took OUR rings off. I think that was the day after she was notified I FILED so she took hers off. I did likewise the same day. I was all dramatic about it. I didn't say a word just flipped the ring onto the bathroom counter and it made a twang noise and spun around like a coin. She acted like she didn't hear or see it.

Coach,
Thanks. I think we understand each other with your "let her come to me" comment.

Today before she got to work and even read the email she was doing some Recon. Asked me what my plans were with the kids this weekend. She asked me if I planned on going out tonight by myself. I said no but I will be here to watch the kids so you can go out. She cut me off and said she is not going out.

She also asked me "W"here [a W question] I am tanning? I am getting as dark as her! I told her I take my shirt off and wear shorts around the farm when spraying for weeds, mowing, and doing projects. Otherwise I wouldn't have white as a ghost ankles from a sock line. I told her no one wears shoes to go tanning. The truth is I lay out at home up to 40 minutes on each side. Silly me always leave my socks on because the patio is cooking with 100 degree temps and I burned my feet once and will never do that again. The sock thing helped with my half truth explanation. Plus I wore a stark white (brand new) shirt today which made my tan really pop.

I never ask her questions that start with a "W" but it's nice to see I am starting to get the "W" questions asked of me. A smidge of pursuit on her part, I dunno?