My Wife is Having an Affair with Co-Worker

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Hi SunnyD,

Thanks for the input on my thread.

I have exposed the A, but I am not sure I did it perfectly, and it did not help. Also, I have pretty much gone as dark as possible while live together. I guess I am doing what I should do.

You are right this takes a lot of patience, and I do think that I am in a place where I would not want to be married to my W even if that opportunity was possible.

I am being the best me and the best father.

I had a call from W about $20 that I took out of the bank account for gas and lunch for the kids. She was very mad, and she wanted me to put it back. I told I do have any money,and the car was on empty. She said that I should not have used it. I told her she will have to put the money, and I am not goint to do it. She told me if I have enough money to hire an attorney than I can afford the $20. I just told her that "I am not going to have this conversation with her," and I hung up.

I am doing some of what you suggest.

She did have dinner on the table for me too. The asked if I was going to eat since mom set me a place, and I said "yes." She even went and deposited the money and bought some stuff for home.

I was surprised by this.