I own it, the W does not. She feels that the majority of our problems are me. She has a habit of being on her "high horse" at times and looking at everything negative, nothing will fix "us", she is better off on her own, the grass is greener, she is very much an impulse decision maker. She decides on something without fully understanding the consequences going forward.
Even when she is getting involved in something new, whether its a hobby, a new job, or just changing something up? she jumps in feet first and gets about 50% there, then sits on her hands. It has been one of my issues with how she conducts herself. Even with stuff around the house, she will be one to start cleaning or doing laundry and never finish. She will be going at 100 MPH for 50% of the task, then stop. Usually I have to finish it. She sems to be in better moods towards the end of the day and at night, then in the morning she is pissy and grumpy. She is already complaining about how much she is working which has only been the last 2 weeks. So i guess the reality of where this is going is setting in a bit, but she is stubborn and wont let me see her weakness.
