I'm finding that I am still falling into patterns where I wind up taking up X's slack.

I am annoyed with myself and plan to make an attempt to remedy this. I realize I did not stand up for myself during the M and I am still having trouble w/it.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D