Your h is paranoid and he thinks that you are playing games w/the signing of the papers, etc. They tend to think that we are dragging our feet on such things and to them we are playing games.
I would ignore any more messages about "the games". He's trying to goad you into doing something that you are not ready to do and, of course, you can see clearly and need to do what is best for you and your children. He's not thinking clearly and only wants what he wants.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
