I'm just sayin' that I cared for her with my heart and soul...I wanted to be with her until I died, and I can't imagine caring about someone else to 'that' degree.
No doubt I think a lot of us feel that way. Nobody ever gets M'ed thinking they will D one day...
Well, my son and I are back home. We left Las Vegas and drove straight through all the way back to Oklahoma. I am whipped from that drive...18 hours driving time! We had a blast. We were there for 10 days! That's a long time to be in Vegas if you don't live there! I drank more Pina Coladas in the past 9 days than I have in the past 9 years! My son drank them too (the 'unleaded' version). And sushi...I ate so much sushi out there I think you could detect it in my blood! He really enjoyed the 'spectacle' of Las Vegas. He also enjoyed seeing, and going down inside of, Hoover Dam. Yesterday after we got back, I went and got him registered for school for the coming school year. Don't know how things are gonna play out...I'm just doing my best. I really enjoyed spending all this time with my son while we were on vacation (he enjoyed it too).
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
What part of Oklahoma. I lived in Oklahoma City for two years as a kid. Went to countless Oklahoma City 89ers games. Became a Sooners football fan for life. God Bless Bob Stoops.
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I remember playing football in the front yard on Christmas because it was 75 degrees outside. It snowed once in two years and they closed the school so everyone could enjoy it.
Now I'm in the Midwest with basically three good months to play golf. Back in 2004, I had a chance to take a job in Florida and my STBXW said she wouldn't go ... so I let the opportunity go.
That was a mistake. Getting her away from her family and her comfort zone may have helped -- and if it didn't at least I'd be in Florida.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
Just taking it a day at at time bro. Enjoying my kids, my job, have my dog back, and my blessings from the Lord.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
It snowed 10 inches last Christmas Eve...a real blizzard. It was snowing sideways because of the wind. Now the place is burning up because of temps. greater than 100 degrees and no rain for a long time. Pretty humid too...makes the heat worse. And of course the wind is always blowing hard! If you don't like the weather here...stick around...it'll surely change! This place sucks for golf...awful wind.
Sooner football is just around the corner.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
My 13 y/o daughter came over yesterday for about 6 hours or so. I think she enjoyed her visit. I sure enjoyed seeing her. I took her for a pretty good motorcycle ride. My son has friends come over often, and some of his friends came over yesterday, so my daughter got to play with some of them too. They played on the trampoline, my daughter rode her RipStick, and they played X-Box 360. Her mother came over and picked her up yesterday evening. It was the first time my daughter and I have been around each other in 5 months. She was pleasant, but didn't show any affection towards me, even when she left. Even though, it was 'something'. My 13 y/o daughter and I have been texting with each other a little bit recently...and my 21 y/o daughter and I have been texting with each other a little bit recently too. I got each of them a gift while my son and I were in Las Vegas, and they both said 'thank you'. There has been zero communication between their mother and I. I have been very happy with my son and I spending so much time together, and I feel that he and I get along better now than at any other time in our lives.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.