cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

[Lucky11too]

I would give a quick call to the L just in case. You don't want to do anything to jeapordize the proceedings against you, which I don't think him buying you a fridge would, but it's definitely better to be safe than sorry. Also, from the outside, I would say just take it - he owes you that much, but with you in the middle of the sitch, how would it make you feel? Would it be hard on you to see a fridge that H bought every day (although since it was your guys house, there might be a lot of stuff like that) or would you feel indebted to him in anyway? Probably not, but it's good to just look at it from a legal and personal point of view too.

For the funeral, yes you guys are Ding but it's still your and S's family too. You should definitely go and support the family. Just do what you have been doing this past year regarding family functions, and if they want to talk, let them talk. If you want to go then go, if not, then don't, but don't let your decision be based on what they might or might not say. One way or another it will all come out eventually, and you can just continue to hold your head high b/c you tried with all your heart to save your M.

Oh no, take it easy, girl! We definitely don't want any relapses. You've been thru a lot, so just continue to relax more and go to the dr if it continues to act up!