Maybe your W got cold feet about a D-a leg sep is just rescinded if couple wants to get back together. I don't know WTH the differences mean to a WAS.
I absolutely will take my time as whatever I agree to in the leg sep, holds if we progress to D. That's awful for the person on this site who made a hasty legal decision.
H may want the door left open since his first wife filed a D after he moved out to "figure out what he wanted". Only he knows. I know I want the pain to stop. Yep, tremendous gut wrenching crap.