Does he get text messaging? You could avoid talking to him on the phone by just sending a text "Congratulations!" and leave it be....I know it is hard but remember: all WASs seem to think that we will still be their best friends post D! crazy talk!
I'm with 100% you an both counts.
Originally Posted By: newmama
It is ok for you to let him know that you are happy for him. But please think along the lines of "you divorced me; you can't have me as your best friend anymore if you want to be divorced."
My X asked me to meet her 6 weeks post-divorce. Why? She wanted to be friends. Though, short, I won't go into what I calmly, factually, said, but I ended, simply with, "X, friends don't do the things you've done." And I left.
Peace,
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
