I know, H could file for a D at any time, and so could I during leg sep. There is somewhat of a limbo sitch in a leg sep, but maybe, in my case, that's what H and I need. I don't have that answer. If I did, I'd hire myself out as a counselor. I feel all will be more clear once I don't see H on a daily basis anymore.
After I see a lawyer and discuss the leg sep doc with her, I may change course regarding what is pursued. I don't know and I am not making any hasty decisions. H may be wishing to stay leg married for tax purposes or for some other reason that I don't yet know about.H told me it was because I don't have a job/med insurance. I don't know what the truth is and until I take the final doc to my lawyer, I won't know what the "real" deal is.
You are right, if the WAS's could "regret" sooner before lives were broken apart, then we all wouldn't be here! But we are and we will be okay, no matter what.
