It is ok for you to let him know that you are happy for him. But please think along the lines of "you divorced me; you can't have me as your best friend anymore if you want to be divorced."

I know it is hard to see where you are right now.

Does he get text messaging? You could avoid talking to him on the phone by just sending a text "Congratulations!" and leave it be....I know it is hard but remember: all WASs seem to think that we will still be their best friends post D! crazy talk!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004